But don’t women still do this? Has it really changed? Women put their lives on hold, shelve their dreams, their education, career opportunities, keeping themselves available for The Guy, The Relationship.
Out of all the fears holding us back, fear of being judged, possibly rejected, is one that frightens us most. That’s normal. It’s rooted in our primitive brain, the one running a binary system where the values are live/die.
Why are you playing hard to get? I’m offering you money!
Don’t ever let anyone or anything slow you down.
“Nelly, I love my children more than anything and it has nothing to do with them coming out of my body. It makes no difference where they came from, it’s what happens afterwards.”