How do you see yourself? Are your actions in line with your vision of self? Is there cohesion or a gap? How do you evaluate yourself goes a long way to the manner in which you present yourself and what you were willing to go along with and what you’re going to reject.
It’s hard to set boundaries with those you care about. I go in circles: I feel bad when I draw the line, angry I’m doing this to myself when I don’t. Who else struggles with this?
Beware those you surround yourself with. Are they helping or are they helping themselves? Are they secretly gawking at your misfortune to make themselves feel better? Do they stick close because they feel taller next to you?
All answers lie inside us we know that we know we just don’t want to hear it. So take a deep breath, go sit with yourself and explore how you really feel about whatever it is that comes to mind. Because that’s going be what needs your attention.
Waiting to have enough money and enough time are the two biggest excuses. They’ll leave you, well, waiting. The most important factor is making the decision to do it.